RULES:

1. The tag victim has to come up with 8 different points about his/her perfect lover.

2. Have to mention the gender of his/her perfect lover.

3. Tag eight other victims to join this game and leave a comment on their blog.

4. If you are tagged the second time, there is NO need to do this again.

5. Lastly, and most importantly, HAVE FUN DOING IT.


i prefer to call my lover a.k.a bf to be my partner. so mature and stable feelings.

1. Love God
I want the man in my life to put God the first and
love God before loving anything else.
this is because, man who love God,
will follow God's words.wouldn't betray the partner and stuff.
he will know that God loves him, and he will definitely use the Love that God provides to love me back.God 's love is everlasting Love, so, his love for me will be a everlasting love too! how great right? Love God, Love his family. see me as a part of his family. thats what i want. and believe that with God's grace we will last. i hate the saying that i heard a lot of times from those ppl saying that "only friendship last and relationship doesn't" thats stupid.i hate that saying.
PLEASE. Trust in God.
with His grace, nothing is impossible.
Miracles do happen. trust God,
Trust yourself.
TRUST IN YOUR RELATIONSHIP THAT GOD HAS PLAN FOR YOU. theres always a reason that God put two souls together. its all in His plan.

what do u think?

2. see me as his bestest friend and also one and only lover

i really admire those couples espcially married couples around me who treats their partner as their bestest friend,the one they will try their best to talk to, to discuss or solve problems with. NOT turnings AWAY FROM THEIR PARTNER AND FIND OTHER OPPOSITE GENDER "BEST FRIEND".
i dont believe that theres will be any guy-girl best friend in this world without some "SPECIAL FEELING " towards each other.
maybe its ONE WAY or sometimes TWO WAYS and they dont wanna face and admit it.
please don't find trouble.stop it.
i really want my bf to treat me not only his one and only lover but also his best friend. who he can trust, talk and share secrets with.that make the relationship even closer and better. and also, both of us will be secure with our relationship, coz theres no secrets between us.


3. Understanding and matured

i know i have no right to talk about this,
understanding and matured.
i am not matured at all,
and im not really understanding about certain things that he do.
mainly because of insecureness
that the some particular things that almost made me blind due to all the cryings. u think my relationship is perfect?
think twice.
no relationship is prefect in this world.
theres trials and "adventures"
and God has plan to test
our patience ,
our Love,
our TRUST IN HIM
and
IN OUR PARTNER.
im weak at this,
i am really weak.
thanx to some of my friends that bring me through my relationship trails.
really have to thank to my partner,
for his understanding and he is always there,
willing to listen to my "complains", my "cries",
he always there to comfort me..to make me believe that he loves me and theres no other girl in this world can replace me in his heart.he is the one
.i know that he wont betray me and stuff but but..
theres lotss of "too free" single girls hanging around outside
trying to find their "victim",
causing break ups and arguments between lovers.
those girl can be categories as B*TCH...
go n find a proper partner and stay away from the guys who has been taken. PLEASE respect his partner.
dont think that u r great or what-so-ever.

come to think of it..
sometimes,
without those small arguments and stuff,
the relationship will be darn boring.
heehee.

4. considerate & sensitive

hehee. this..i would say..guys ah..
kinda dumb dumb wan at times.
but not all lar.i mean some. aha! guys who r reading this, pls don't get offended ya?=)
im kinda sensitive with the words , the tone and the things that others use towards me. or should i say, very sensitive? im sensitive, yes i am. thats the bad thing about me.
im super sensitive about things that will effect our relationship,
eventhough it wont effect us for the mean time,
but i'll still try my best to let my partner to understand whats the consequences of doing that in a long run period. im sensitive at things.
i dont like to argue and stuff, i will just turn and walk away if u raise up his voice to shout at me or question me as if all is my fault.
i don't like that. i'll rather my partner to clam down himself before talking to me. im not that kinda girl that would scream,
shout and throw things to the person that i argue with. im cool. ahaa!
if its my fault,

please do sit down together with me and correct me personally and privately.
i'll listen and try my best to correct it. i dont accept shouting and scolding or blaming..its a no no no for me. he must consider my feelings before he says or do anything, like how i treat him.

for me..

i'll think of my partner's feelings first before myself, i would not do things that i dont like my partner to do. the best example,
do i have a very close best male friend? NO. we kept distance. respect each other.
like what i have written in my previous post,u can find its link as " friendship vs relationship."
read it if u havnt.

i will do anything for him if its reasonable and worth it.
we are so nice together that i would not allow anything to effect us or threaten our relationship.
im really serious on that.
=D



5. chemistry & feeling
heee. i do agree that chemistry and feelings are really extremely VERY important in all relationships. when u fall in love with someone,
chemistry will be develop automatically..
this cant be force, need to come naturally and truly form both of our heart and soul.
darling and i having great chemistry and feelings in our relationship,
its not really great not all the time but MOST OF THE TIME, ITS GREAT.
thats why we both are loving each other sooo much now.
words cant really explain how we feel for each other.our LOve is just..sooo much!



6. sense of humour
yeaps! sense of humour. my darling ken never failed to make me laugh..each time im with him..im always laughing. his dad also has a great sense of humour too, like father like son.
darling and i would make silly or kinda stupid jokes and will make both of us feel...like laughing. hehee! i dont like guys that always love to act like as if they are cool..its great to be cool once a while but not all the time. ahha! smile and laugh. best part of life. ohya, when u hear my sayang laugh right,
eventhough u do not know what the heck he is laughing at..
u will still follow him laughing.=D
thats my darling.



7. honesty
HOnesty. if u lied to me once,its really hard for my to believe u anymore.
please dont hide things from me,
even if i dont like that particular news or things, my partner souldnt hide it and never tell me about it. should just sit down with me and tell me face to face.
i'll understand.but if i found out things myself,
i will get really angry and disappointed..



8. see me in his future,treat me as his last
i would love my partner to see me in his future plan.
i really love to be part of his life, his future.
just like now.
it feels soo great.
loving him soo much.!

theres no perfect lover.
eventho darling is not perfect, so am i.
im still feel really blessed to have him in my life.
i really do.
he is a very special guy in my life,
my best friend,
my partner,
my lover,
my soulmate.

he fits 8 of this things that i'v listed.
thats why he is my guy.=D
the best part of him is..
he listens.
he understand.
he trust.
he loves me with all his heart.
no doubt.





heheee..i dont wanna tag anyone else. bluex!
but if u r reading this, and u feel that u wana share urs to us, do tell me. i'll tag u and u do it in ur blog. ahhaha!!
=D


much love,
lyne